
I know what it feels like to have my heart shattered, to live with deep emotional pain, and to reach a point where life does not feel worth living. I understand the sleepless nights with ruminating thoughts of the “not good enoughs” running wild in my mind. I remember the three octave higher voice saying “I’m fine” when it was the furthest thing from the truth.
My life, my future dreams, and my identity as a wife and mother were stripped from me in the blink of an eye when he walked in one night and said, “I want a divorce.”
I felt lost, confused, ashamed, and had no idea how to move forward. I stopped answering the phone and returning calls. I cancelled plans at the last minute. I stayed home, scrolled on my phone, watched one more show, and little by little my world grew smaller as I pulled back from family and friends.
Isolation often felt like protection, but with hindsight, in that quiet space, my inner critic did its handiwork.
You were never created to carry this kind of burden by yourself. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Little by little, God met me in my woundedness and began to heal my broken heart. The journey to peace that surpasses understanding was long and difficult, but it was real.
My heart breaks when I see another woman experiencing the depths of pain I once did, and that is why I do what I do. I help women go from heartache to healing and from pain to peace by teaching practical tools and strategies, combined with gentle, guided coaching that grew out of my own faith journey and my training as a Tony Robbins and Cloe Madanes Certified Coach.
If your heart is crushed, if your spirit feels heavy, if you feel exhausted from holding everything together on the outside while falling apart on the inside, you do not have to go through this alone. This season does not have to define you. Together, we can begin a new chapter with a fresh beginning.

Whether you are:
- Considering separation
- Separated
- Newly divorced
- Or a seasoned veteran of divorce
You are welcome here.
We offer the opportunity to:
- Meet like-minded Christian women
- Join in-person or online connect
groups
- Create bonds and lasting friendships
- Learn from each other, the good, the
bad, and the ugly 😂
- Receive faith-based guidance,
direction, and wisdom for healing
and moving forward in life
- Participate in a variety of social
gatherings (ie., game nights,
bowling, book club, lakefront strolls,
music festivals, paint parties,
holiday events)
- Build wonderful new memories as
the author of the next chapter of
your life
Mark your calendar now and plan to join us every 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th Tuesday of the month at 6:30pm CST, unless otherwise noted.
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The Breakthrough Lab
Overcome Depression
Are you or someone you love struggling with depression, negative thoughts, and unhealthy emotions? Do you feel trapped in a deep, dark pit of despair with no relief in sight? Do you find yourself questioning is life even worth living?
There IS hope. You do NOT need to live like this. You do NOT need to remain hostage to depression or hopelessness.
If you would like to go from pain to peace and heartache to healing and overcome depression, then click the link below for more information.


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Embark on my personal journey as I was in search of peace from the endless barrage of negative thoughts and unhealthy emotions like depression, loneliness, guilt, shame, and unforgiveness. Not only did I find euphoric PEACE, but also FREEDOM.
Through vulnerable and unapologetic storytelling, be prepared to laugh and cry as you navigate the emotional roller coaster of ups and downs in my personal and professional life. Possibly a life no doubt very similar to your own.
This book doubles as an ACTION GUIDE providing revealing secrets and thought-provoking reflection questions from my own personal journey, empowering you to achieve similar results on your path from pain to peace and freedom.
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Find Freedom, Peace, & Joy Once Again
PUT AN END TO MENTAL WARFARE
Silence Your Inner Critic
Find Hope, Healing, & Freedom
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Author • Speaker
Workshop & Retreat Leader
www.DebraRieder.com
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